beach vacation dinners, and a recipe: mississippi mud cake

Our annual week at the beach is already becoming a distant memory, even though it was only four weeks ago. I meant to write about it much sooner than now, but within 24 hours of returning home from the beach, life became hectic and harried. But that is what life does, right? Life careens ahead, hurtling through the yellow caution lights, never pulling over to the curb to allow one to catch one’s breath, much less catch up.

If we can coordinate it amongst our schedules, our weekly summer beach trip is usually a joint vacation with good friends. This year, we rented a huge beach cottage one block from the Gulf of Mexico – more of a beach compound, really, with one main house and two guest cottages – and filled it with three adult couples, six children, one babysitter, and enough LEGOs to construct the island of Manhattan, to scale.

seaside, florida

The adults made up an interesting group of medical specialists – two oncologists, one hematologist (who is also an oncologist, even though she denies it), one family practitioner, one endodontist, and one neurosurgeon. Despite this, conversations, thankfully, did not fixate on cancer, brain tumors, root canals, or recent influenza strains. Work chatter was kept to a minimum, and we all preferred it this way.

What we did talk about, and quite a lot, really, was food. And about drinks.

(There were six children, ages 2 to 9, after all.)

beach dinner

We did everything one would expect to be done on a beach vacation. We relaxed, we read books, and some of us napped. We gossiped and laughed and reminisced. The littlest among us played in the sand: digging holes until clear water seeped through the cold, packed earth at the bottom; making drip castles with drawbridges made of driftwood; chasing small sand crabs into their straw-like tunnels in the sand. We slathered on sunscreen several times per day, took walks on the beach (when the children let us), and cooled off in the swimming pool. We gawked at the beautiful beach cottages, and we daydreamed of what it must be like to own one.

And we cooked together. We fed each other.

mississippi mud cake | the merry gourmet

One evening, we dined on grilled steaks and corn on the cob, and for dessert we devoured Mississippi Mud Cake, warm and gooey from the oven. We made homemade pizzas one night, grilling them on pizza stones (ordered up fresh from Amazon) set over the two charcoal grills on the patio. It rained halfway through the pizza grilling, creating a Top Chef-like plot twist. But contrary to what the grill master (the neurosurgeon) thought, figuring out how to grill pizzas in a downpour just made the evening more exciting.

Besides, the wine was flowing, and with it, the conversation.

low country boil

low country boil

On our last night, the men (headed by the family practitioner) served up a low country shrimp boil. We ate outdoors, on the vast patio table that sat all 13 of us comfortably. The silvery, weathered table was piled high with potatoes, corn on the cob, artichokes, sausages, and the best shrimp I’ve had in ages.

The meal could have fed the entire block, and had the rain not started up again, we might have had the neighbors over to partake in the feast.

These are special friends we vacationed with. I’m certain that my memories of the hours spent lounging on the beach chairs under an umbrella will blur in my memory, that they will intermingle with those memories of other beach vacations, other beach chairs and umbrellas. My memories of the time spent in the kitchen with these friends, hours spent around the dining table, sharing meals and making toasts, are firmly etched in my mind, however.

When the vacation was over, I felt nourished, in many more ways than one.

And I’m already plotting next year’s trip.

Thanks to Julia for this photo of one of our dinners on the patio.

Thanks to Julia for this photo of one of our dinners on the patio.

*  *  *  *  *

This Mississippi Mud Cake is adapted from a recipe from Nancie McDermott’s wonderful cake book, Southern Cakes: Sweet and Irresistible Recipes for Everyday Celebrations. We enjoyed it over a few day period. The first night, we ate it while it was still slightly warmer than room temperature. It was gooey and rich, and almost like an undercooked brownie. Over the next two days, as it chilled in the refrigerator, the cake set up firm and was easier to cut into squares. I’ve shown you two photos here, so you can see the contrast in the texture.

Honestly, I loved both versions — warm and fresh out of the oven, and chilled on day two or three. You just can’t go wrong with this chocolate cake.

mississippi mud cake | the merry gourmet

Mississippi Mud Cake

This recipe is adapted from Nancie McDermott's wonderful cake book, Southern Cakes: Sweet and Irresistible Recipes for Everyday Celebrations. This decadent chocolate cake is excellent warm or at room temperature, when the texture is soft and gooey. When chilled, the cake has more of a brownie texture and tastes of rich chocolate fudge. I like to eat it both ways, and sometimes, I think it's even better on the second and third day.


Ingredients for Cake

2 sticks (227 grams) butter
1/2 cup (60 grams) cocoa powder
4 large eggs, beaten well
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 tablespoon instant coffee powder (optional)
2 cups (400 grams) granulated sugar
1-1/2 cups (188 grams) all-purpose flour
1/8 teaspoon kosher salt

Ingredients for Frosting

16 ounces (453 grams) confectioners’ sugar
1/2 cup (60 grams) cocoa powder
1 stick (113 grams) butter, melted
1/2 cup milk
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
4 cups mini marshmallows


Preheat oven to 350 degrees, with rack in middle position. Butter and flour a 13-by-9-inch baking pan.

In a medium saucepan, melt the butter with cocoa powder over medium heat, stirring occasionally until the mixture is smooth, about 3-4 minutes. Remove from heat. Using a wooden or silicone spoon, stir in beaten eggs, vanilla, coffee powder (if using), sugar, flour, and salt. Stir until the batter is well mixed, smooth, and no flour is visible. Pour the batter into the prepared baking pan and bake for 20 to 25 minutes, or until the cake springs back when touched gently in the center and the cake edges start to pull away from the pan.

While the cake bakes, prepare the frosting. In a medium heatproof bowl, combine the confectioners’ sugar and cocoa powder; whisk to combine. Add the melted butter, milk, and vanilla. Using a large spoon or a mixer at low speed, stir together until smooth and well blended. Set aside until the cake is done. (See note.)

Remove cake from oven and scatter marshmallows over the top. Place back in oven for about 3 minutes, to warm and soften the marshmallows.

Pour frosting all over the top of the cake, over the marshmallows, and let cake cool on a rack. Cut into small squares and serve cake at room temperature (cake will be soft and gooey) or chilled.

Note: If the frosting begins to set up before you’re ready to use it, you can melt it again by making a double boiler. Simply place the bowl of frosting over a saucepan of simmering water and stir frosting until melted and smooth again.

    Pin It

19 Responses to “beach vacation dinners, and a recipe: mississippi mud cake”

  1. 1
    Paula - bell'alimento — September 9, 2013 @ 7:38 pm

    This makes me incredibly happy. And that table with low country boil. Perfection.

  2. 2
    Macaroni Mama — September 9, 2013 @ 7:53 pm

    Great post. Wished I was there.

  3. 3
    Laura — September 9, 2013 @ 8:13 pm

    Oh my goodness, my mouth is watering! And I’m more than a teensy bit jealous of your gulf coast vacation 🙂

  4. 4
    Brooke — September 9, 2013 @ 8:13 pm

    Looks like you had an amazing time!!

  5. 5
    Denise @ Creative Kitchen — September 9, 2013 @ 9:21 pm

    Sounds incredible!! Food, drink, vacation and friends are what memories are built on! Our camping group is this for me. So glad you had a relaxing, fun time. I’ve been dying to do that low country boil for awhile. Your mud cake is a favorite from my childhood. 😉

  6. 6
    Nancie McDermott — September 9, 2013 @ 10:43 pm

    I am very very happy.

  7. 7
    Di — September 10, 2013 @ 9:30 am

    The mud cake looks divine and I know first hand about that family practitioner’s shrimp boil (although it’s been a good number of years since he served it up at a family med-school graduation celebration). Looks like you got a much needed break surrounded by the nourishment that only close friends can give. Many blessings.

  8. 8
    Paula — September 10, 2013 @ 5:32 pm

    What a wonderful and restful vacation you had. The shot of the shrimp and the overhead shots of your dining table are fabulous. Such a contrast from your IG photos of the hospital hallway! So glad that you were able to recharge your spirit with friends and make some great memories together, not to mention some fabulous meals and dessert!

  9. 9
    Janice — September 11, 2013 @ 7:39 am

    That was, by far, one of the best vacations I can remember (and BTW – I still dream about the mud cake)! So glad I now have the recipe. And yes, we need to start planning next year’s trip ASAP!

  10. 10
    Kathryn — September 11, 2013 @ 12:06 pm

    Such a perfect sounding vacation; I’m so glad you got a good break.

  11. 11
    Carlinne @Cook with 2 Chicks — September 11, 2013 @ 3:04 pm

    Beach vacations are the best. Especially when shared with friends and everyone shares good food and plenty of conversation.

  12. 12
    Jen @ My Kitchen Addiction — September 15, 2013 @ 9:58 pm

    Sounds like such a wonderful trip… Thanks for sharing your memories and the wonderful recipe for Mississippi Mud Cake. Yum!

  13. 13
    Dina — September 25, 2013 @ 11:58 am

    that looks delish!

  14. 14
    Courtney — November 24, 2013 @ 3:07 pm

    When/how do you add the flour and salt? The recipe doesn’t say; it just says to stir until the flour isn’t visible: “In a medium saucepan, melt the butter with cocoa powder over medium heat, stirring occasionally until the mixture is smooth, about 3-4 minutes. Remove from heat. Using a wooden or silicone spoon, stir in beaten eggs, vanilla, coffee powder (if using), and sugar. Stir until the batter is well mixed, smooth, and no flour is visible.”

    • 14.1
      Merry-Jennifer — November 24, 2013 @ 3:21 pm

      Courtney – thanks for catching this error. I’ve corrected it in the recipe. Add the flour and salt at the same time you add the sugar.

  15. Pingback: The Merry Gourmet ten most popular recipes of 2013 | the merry gourmet

  16. 15
    Sharon — January 5, 2014 @ 9:31 pm

    No leavener? Dutch process cocoa or natural?

    • 15.1
      Merry-Jennifer — January 6, 2014 @ 7:17 pm

      Nope, no leavener in this recipe. You can use any cocoa you like, also.

  17. Pingback: peach streusel pie | the merry gourmet

Leave a Comment